It’s 8am and SuAs and Raj are here to take me out for the day. We catch a mini bus to the Bus Park from where the city local city buses depart. The minibuses are usually small worn out little vans that get unbelievably crowded with locals. They are uncomfortable and likely to break down at any moment but very cheap. They are a main source of transport for those that don’t have their own means of getting around. They tend to put the tourists in the front because they are generally bigger than the average Nepalese customer. This may seem like an advantage but while you might be physically more comfortable, the experience from up front is visual torture! The drivers are usually either crazy or wannabe rally drivers. We do survive and arrive at the bus park to catch a city bus to Bhuktapur.
Across from the bus park is a large space where the Nepalese army train and work their horses. There is activity there at this early part of the day. It looks like they are practicing the sport of tent pegging, where riders try to lance an in-ground wooden peg while galloping at speed. It’s a sport I’ve seen played in Australia. In another part of this large inner city space is an area where locals exercise. It’s 8.30 on a Monday morning and already there is an enthusiastic game of cricket in progress.
Before reaching Bhuktapur we visit a hill top where a giant statue of Ceiba, one of the Hindu Gods, is under construction. It’s huge.
Bhuktapur was a separate city but is now part of the Kathmandu sprawl. Tourist come here to visit the old Centre of the city, particularly Durbar Square. This is where the King and Queen of Buktapur used to live and rule. It’s now World Heritage Listed for its archaeological and cultural value to the world. The architecture is of similar style and age as that of the other Darbar Squares in Kathmandu and neighboring Patan. SuAs and Raj show me around. It all dates back to the 8th century at a time when Nepal was separate kingdoms. The Square, and much of Bhuktapur, was badly affected by the earthquake so now ancient buildings and statues are help up by supporting timber poles. Amazingly businesses are still operating in these buildings.
Raj has arranged for us all to visit his Aunt and family for lunch. They live in an area of Bhuktapur called Gondu, which is a decent taxi drive away and on a hill side. We met Raj’s direct family a few days ago. Now we are with his mother’s sister. She has four daughters, one is married to a German and now lives in Germany. He was visiting Bhuktapur Durbar Square as a tourist years ago and met Raj’s cousin. The wedding was a full-on Hindu affair here in Kathmandu. Rajs’Edit cousins showed me the photos. An amazing story. Two younger girls are at college and the youngest is at school. They live a very simple meager existence, as does Raj’s family, on a small piece of land. Their house was weakened by the quake and is unlivable so now the live in tin sheds at the back. Raj’s Aunt welcomes us with ‘welcome tea’. She’s beautiful, as are two of her daughters who are at home at the moment. Raj hasn’t visited the for a long while because it’s difficult for him to get here from his home without his own transport. The banter is so typical of any family. To Raj from his Aunt – ‘You rarely come to visit’, ‘you look too thin’, etc. it’s easy to see this is an overdue reunion and the love is obvious. From very little, these familiesEdit seem to be able to offer their children healthy opportunities. A full education is available to them, though logistically difficult, and they make the most of it. I don’t know how they do it. ‘We are poor but we are happy’ Raj explains.
After a beautiful lunch we walk around the farms and visit the local school. We can catch a bus back from here so we wait. Raj and his Aunt and cousins are making the most of these last moments together so there is plenty of talk and laughter. Occasionally he translates for me to keep me in the loop.
I get back to the hotel around 5.30pm and Ganesh is there waiting. He’s taking me over to a sister hotel to where I’m staying to show me around. He explains the plans they have for the hotel in the future. It has a pool, which during the earthquake, through up a huge wave as it rocked back and forth. The manager was inundated and had to hold onto a fence to avoid being swept into the side of the hotel.Edit